The Other End of the Leash shares a revolutionary, new perspective on our relationship with dogs, focusing on our behavior in comparison with that of dogs. An applied animal behaviorist and dog trainer with more than twenty years experience, Dr. Patricia McConnell looks at humans as just another interesting species, and muses about why we behave the way we do around our dogs, how dogs might interpret our behavior, and how to interact with our dogs in ways that bring out the best in our four-legged friends.

After all, although humans and dogs share a remarkable relationship that is unique in the animal world, we are still two entirely different species, each shaped by our individual evolutionary heritage. Quite simply, humans are primates and dogs are canids (like wolves, coyotes, and foxes). Since we each speak a different native tongue, a lot gets lost in the translation.

The Other End of the Leash demonstrates how even the slightest changes in your voice and the way you stand can help your dog understand what you want. Once you start to think about your own behavior from the perspective of your dog, you’ll understand why much of what appears to be doggy-disobedience is simply a case of miscommunication. Inside you will learn
• How to use your voice so that your dog is more likely to do what you ask.
• Why “getting dominance” over your dog is a bad idea.
• Why “rough and tumble primate play” can lead to trouble–and how to play with your dog in ways that are fun and keep him out of trouble.
• How dogs and humans share personality types–and why most dogs want to live with benevolent leaders rather than “alphawannabees!”

In her own insightful, compelling style, Patricia McConnell combines wonderful true stories about people and dogs with a new, accessible scientific perspective on how they should behave around each other. This is a book that strives to help you make the most of life with your dog, and to prevent problems that might arise in that most rewarding of relationships.

From the Hardcover edition.

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5 Stars The other end of the leash
I have had 2 to 3 dogs with me as companions for more than 40 years. I was under the impression that I know a lot about dogs. This book has opened my eyes. Now I understand dogs behavior better after reading this book. Real life experiences narrated by Patricia McConnell makes us understand why we behave the way we do! A must have for any dog lover.

5 Stars One of the best books ever on dog & owner interaction!!
I had farm dogs for many years – no leashes – just the basic training of manners. I have read many books over the years on dog training, but now I am in a whole new realm. I am living in the city with a dog I adopted from a local shelter, and have been reading more advanced approaches to training and behaviors,therapy dog training and use, etc., and have learned something from each book. It has been an adventure navigating from novice city dog owner (how to hold the leash, ‘heel’, greeting other dogs) to really understanding in depth what the relationship can be ideally between human and dog. The part about our body signals to our dogs was helpful, even though I knew some of it by experience – hat means going outside – the author took it to a much deeper level, and I am using body language in more advanced ways, whether in play or in training.

I found this book just at the perfect time for what I needed to learn to go even further in making my amazing dog be the best she can be!

Have read other books by Patricia McConnell which were excellent also, and alerted my local librarian to her books, especially for new owners. It covers everything from puppies to senior dogs and even rehoming if necessary.

Most helpful book ever!!

(Just a note about another book I’d recommend..’The Loved Dog’ by Tamar Geller. Somewhat different approaches, but both about the great love and connection with your dog)

5 Stars This is the book
I got my first dog three years ago and have since read many canine training/behviour/psychology books. This is the best for the following reasons:

1) My relationship with my dog has changed thanks to the explanations in the book. It has opened my eyes.

2) The excellent bibliography in the book gives lots of tips for further learning which has been very useful.

3) Excellent blend of science/anecdote – a very accessible book!

Should a friend of mine obtain a dog, this is the book I’ll be offering!

4 Stars Actually more like 4 and a half stars
I found the first part of the book very interesting as she explains the differences in innate behavior between humans and dogs. It provides a lot of insight really. Towards the end of the book she wanders off topic a bit. There wasn’t a lot of practical advice on training dogs, but there were enough useful tips that I would recommend it to others interested in training their dogs.

Her writing style is easily accessable. Although she approaches the subject from a scientific standpoint, she doesn’t write in the elitist way of many PhDs that I have encountered.

5 Stars Read this book if you love your dog.
This is an excellent book by someone who really knows and loves dogs. The author is highly trained and experienced in the field of animal behavior and writes with heart. You will find it a very readable, enjoyable, and informative book. As a dog trainer myself, who has read many books on the subject of dogs, training, and animal behavior this is the one I always recommed. Whether you are thinking of getting a dog, or already have one or more dogs, this book will enlighten and help you to be your dog’s best friend.

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*The Culture Clash is special. Written in Jean’s inimitably informal yet precise lecture style, the book races along on par with a good thriller. *The Culture Clash depicts dogs as they really are – stripped of their Hollywood fluff, with their loveable ‘can I eat it, chew it, urinate on it, what’s in it for me’ philosophy. Jean’s tremendous affection for dogs shines through at all times, as does her keen insight into the dog’s mind. Relentlessly she champions the dog’s point of view, always showing concern for their education and well being. Without a doubt, Jean’s book is the hottest doggy item on the market. Best Training Book Of The Year! (Maxwell Award)

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5 Stars A gift to dogs and their humans
I love any information that allows us to better understand a species that doesn’t communicate via human language. Dogs certainly have a wonderful ally in Jean Donaldson. Her explanations are clear and insightful, based on science rather than subjective interpretation. Anyone who reads this book will have a much better understanding of how to interact respectfully and effectively with dogs. And isn’t that what dogs really and truly deserve?

5 Stars For Anyone That Really Wants To Understand Dog Behavior
My dog-eared, worn-cover, beaten up copy of The Culture Clash, signed by Jean Donaldson Oct. 5, 1997, is one of my most prized books in my dog training library. I’ve had the great opportunity to attend her seminars and listen to her speak on a few occasions. It’s a book that is required reading for any serious student of dog behavior. It’s also great for anyone just interested in learning more about dog behavior and training. Let me explain why:

1. The book opens with “Getting The Dog’s Perspective – Walt Disney vs. B.F. Skinner” and goes on to explain that dogs are amoral animals, that they have no understanding of right and wrong. She adds that dogs don’t spite us, get back at us or feel guilty for doing “bad behavior.” When we believe that our dogs are getting back at us, or trying to spite us, they end up getting a lot of punishment.

Think about it, you come home after a long day at work only to find your favorite $200 pair of shoes chewed to bits. If you think your dog did that to “get back at you” you would dole out a nice big dose of punishment. In reality, your dog was stressed at being left alone and chewed to relieve the stress. The next day you leave for work and your dog feeling stressed again, chews your kitchen chairs. You walk in the house and think, “He did it again to ME!” Severe punishment follows.

If this happens again and again the behavior is likely to get worse. In reality, your dog is not associating the chewing with his behavior. The chewing is a direct result of your behavior. Your dog associates the punishment with your homecoming. You walk in the door and pound him – this sets up a behavioral history. When you walk out the door there is a good chance that when you come back in a beating will follow.

Everyday you leave and your dog learns that when you come home he is going to be punished. It’s all very stressful. How does the dog relieve stress – CHEWING!

Jean Donaldson explains this process so well and really gives you insights into why your dog is behaving a certain way.

2. Chapter 2 continues with the fact that dogs are predatory animals, that they are hard wired to search, stalk, rush, chase, bite/hold/shake/kill, and to dissect and eat(prey). This chapter is particularly important because of the writing on tug-o-war, the most misunderstood game in “dogdom”.

In addition to tug-o-war, she discusses alone training, chew training and a lot more.

3. Chapter 3 on Socialization, Conflict Resolution, Fear and Aggression goes on to give some of the best advice for new puppy owners. The sections on bite inhibition, timid puppies, dog-dog socialization, food bowl exercises, object exchanges, and the bite threshold model is a must read for any new puppy owner.

4. Chapter 4 – Its All Chew Toys To Them, starts off with the story of The Gorns. The Gorns is an excellent story of putting us in the position of dogs. Humans are kept as companion animals to a more intellectually sophisticated species.

Imagine living on a planet with a Gorn and this Gorn punishes you for doing normal human behavior like: Shaking hands, sitting on couches, eating anything but “Human Chow,” etc.

Think about dogs, they get punished for sniffing each others butts (human equilevlent to shaking hands), sitting on the couch, trying to eat anything other than the food from a bag that we feed them. This is a very eye-opening chapter.

5. Chapter 5 is the one chapter that I think makes a lot of people upset – “Lemon Brains But We Still Love Them.” The first paragraph of this chapter she states:

“The enmeshment between dog owners and Walt Disney has been too tight to allow behaviorism in. We’ve been clinging to the wish that dogs might just have big, convoluted, melon brains like humans and have a natural desire to please. The fact of the matter is dogs have little, smoothish lemon brains and are looking out for number one. I personally still like them.”

It’s an excellent chapter that goes on to explain how behaviors are taught. Much of what has been taught on dog training is false. For years dog owners have been told that when a dog does NOT do the command the dog is being dominant. The dog owner is then instructed to be “The Alpha” and apply appropriate force, setting up a negative situation between dog and owner. If we truly believe that the dog has a natural desire to please, then the dog should want to do it for us.

On the other hand, if we take a realistic view and understand that as Jean states, `They are looking out for number one,” we figure out what the proper motivation is to teach the dog to do the command.

6. The final chapter finishes up with instructions on how to teach your dog obedience commands starting with kindergarten levels and working up to PhD levels.

The relationship between dogs and humans is a long one. It’s time that we stop expecting our dogs to think like us and learn to think like our dogs.

Is it any reason that we have 56 million dog bites every year in the United States? The only way were going to make that number go down is to read books like Jean Donaldson’s book, The Culture Clash.

3 Stars Good info, not so good writing
Donaldson clearly knows alot about dog behavior and provides some useful knowledge about the dog’s evolutinary history and behavior issues. Unfortunately, her writing style is overly tedious and at times excessively academic. Who cares, other than psychologists, about the subtle differences between operant and classical conditioning and the overly complicated version of “aversives” that she brings to the discussion? Much could be said with far simpler words and better sentence construction. I felt like I was reading a textbook,,,,not what I wanted. Why say “olfactory” when “smell” would do quite nicely. She also displays, on occasion, a rather silly arrogance when she refers to some people (who might have differing views than she does)as “poor” or “stupid.” I was extremely disappointed. Her writing got in the way of providing solutions to my dog’s issues.

5 Stars Best Dog Training Book Ever
Everyone with a dog, or thinking of getting a dog, even people who think they know everything about dogs, should read this book! You’ll never look at them the same, and you’ll be the better for it!

If your dog doesn’t respond to the clicker noise/device, just substitute a happy, zesty, cheerful “yes!” or something else quick and enthusiastic.

Finally we can all give up the idea that they did something bad “to get back at us!”

5 Stars Best book on dog behavior I’ve ever read
I considered myself pretty progressive regarding dog training and behavior and then I read this book and realized I needed to update my thinking even more. The book is so good I bought 5 more to give to my friends with dogs. I STRONGLY recommend it to anyone who owns a dog. It is really worth the read. After you read this book, then move on to clicker training books – especially anything by Karen Pryor. Using clicker training (discussed in Culture Clash as well), I was able to train my 7 week old Aussie puppy how to sit, down, give paw, “attention,” and “touch” (target) my hand, in about 3-5 minutes for each command. If you love your dogs, read these books and train them well.

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